Ben Skute
If your on this page looking for tips on how to get hookups, you’re in the wrong area. The days of trying to seduce a girl in a club/bar are long gone by the time you hit 40 and most men in their 40’s are looking to settle down. Below are a few tips and tricks to help you in your pursuit.
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#1 The Dating World Is A Drug
Non-stop dates with various women along with frequent physical contact can create false expectations for long-term relationships. Keep this in mind while dating so you're not disillusioned when you transition into a long-term committed relationship.
Contributors: Wyatt Fisher from Christian Crush
#2 Make A Plan On The 1st Phone Call
Most women prefer to be called rather than texted, but they will put up with it at least in the beginning. Call a woman and have a plan and a date rather than suggest that you will figure it out later. If you can't use modern technology properly (You can text but not use Siri to find restaurants?) then you are likely to lose a woman at hello.
Contributors: Stefanie Safran from Stef And The City
#3 Ask Women What They Want To Do But Have Several Suggestions
Coming up with the plan and expecting her to show up is not realistic in today's day and age. Women are going to meet you at a location and since most people are perfect strangers, having several choices is more key than expecting her to come up with something without your participation.
Contributors: Stefanie Safran from Stef And The City
#4 Be Self-Supporting
Few people in their 40s are looking for someone to support.
Contributors: Elliott Katz from ElliottKatz
#5 Ask About Her Children
If the person you are dating has children, ask about them. Be supportive of her parenting efforts. If her commitment to her children is an issue to you, this may not be the right relationship for you.
Contributors: Elliott Katz from ElliottKatz
#6 Jealous Of Your Kids?
If you have children and the person you are dating appears jealous of the attention you give your children, she may not be the right person for you.
Contributors: Elliott Katz from ElliottKatz
#7 Don’t Expect Her To Sleep With You On The 3rd Date
Women who are sane and looking for a real relationship are mostly likely not going to sleep with you immediately.
Contributors: Stefanie Safran from Stef And The City
#8 If You Have An Ex, Don’t Bad Mouth Her
Don't talk about her at all. When she wants to know about your ex, she will ask. She may form an opinion about you by how you answer. Blaming your ex may make you look like you have not learned from your experience and that you are not ready for a new relationship. When she asks about the ex, be prepared to share what you learned from your mistakes and how it has made you a better partner.
Contributors: Elliott Katz from ElliottKatz
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