Logan Voss
Welcoming a baby into the family is one of life’s most joyful experiences. Alongside the excitement comes challenges that new parents might not have anticipated. These small, unexpected issues sometimes require the most attention. Read on and learn a few unexpected issues new parents should consider.
Sleep Regressions
It’s not just newborns who wake up at odd hours. As babies grow, their sleep patterns change and cause sleep regressions. These phases can catch parents off guard, especially when they think they’ve settled into a routine. Understand that this developmental phase is normal for babies. Be patient and remember: this, too, shall pass.
Postpartum Emotional Health
New parents put all their focus on the baby, but their own health is just as important. Postpartum emotions can be a roller coaster. Feelings can range from overwhelming joy to bouts of sadness or anxiety for the birthing parent. Recognize when you or your partner might need support or space. Taking time for self-care, even if it’s just a few minutes, can make a world of difference for new parents.
Unexpected Expenses
Budgeting for a baby often involves big-ticket items like cribs and strollers. Yet, the unforeseen expenses tend to add up. Emergency doctor visits, specialized formulas, or last-minute babysitters might have slipped your mind until you’re paying for them. Building a small buffer in your budget for unexpected costs can alleviate some financial stress of parenthood.
Balancing Relationships
Relationships with partners or other children can sometimes take a back seat with a newborn in the house. Acknowledge these shifts, and carve out time for loved ones. Whether it’s a date with your partner, a brief chat over coffee with your parents, or a day out with your sibling, maintaining these bonds ensures everyone feels valued.
Designing a Nursery
Creating a nursery is exciting, but designing a nursery for a newborn with allergies can be tricky. Opt for hypoallergenic fabrics for bedding and curtains. Air purifiers can reduce allergens in the room, and low-VOC paint can reduce the amount of irritants. Regularly clean the space with natural products, and avoid adding stuffed animals or excessive décor to reduce potential allergens and create a safe room for your baby.
Now that you know some unexpected issues new parents should consider, you’re better prepared to navigate the beautiful, complex journey of parenthood. Each challenge brings growth and understanding to become stronger as a family.
