To help your partner feel appreciated, the most transformative thing you need to do is focus exclusively on your partner when your partner is talking to you. If you pause to stop multi-tasking when your partner is expressing something to you – even if it’s something trivial – to concentrate fully on what your partner is saying, your partner feels like he or she is at the center of your world. And your partner actually does move into the center of your world that way.
Contributors: Bracha Goetz from Bracha’s Books