It’s not making up excuses, it’s seeing if there is a reason other than just not loving you for this behavior. For instance, one of the signs of bipolar disorder is hypersexuality. Combined with lowered inhibitions, you could have a man who loves you desperately but cheats regularly. If you’re going to heal with him, it’s good to understand what the reasons truly are behind the infidelity so something could be done about them. Both of you could heal at the same time.
Contributors: NaDasha Elkerson from Love Worth Keeping Relationship Coaching