The big question to ask yourself is: How do I FEEL when I’m around this girl? It’s not about how she looks standing next to you. It’s about what’s different and special when you’re around her. Does you feel respected, admired, valued, secure? Do you feel relaxed and loved? Does she boost your self-confidence? Do you feel like you’re her man? Or are you always on guard, afraid of slipping up and saying the wrong thing? Are you competing with her when it comes to looks, athletics, grades or job status? That’s a tough road to walk long-term. Competition isn’t usually healthy in a romantic relationship. You want SUPPORT instead.
Contributors: Rosalind Sedacca from WomenDatingRescue