An easy way to get a guy to bolt it after the first date is to grill him on his political views, whether or not he wants kids, and other topics that can make the date go from fun to fuck this. Instead, wow him by living in the moment with him. You’re just trying to get to know each other and check out the vibe. By being present, you’re being less judgmental, a better listener, and an overall cool girl.
Contributors: Holly Shaftel from Holly Shaftel, LLC